I talk a lot on here about celebrations, but of course Judaism has taught me a lot about unhappy times, as well. While a teenager at Congregation Beth Torah in Overland Park, Kansas, I remember Rabbi Mark Levin talking to a group of us about comforting those who mourn. “It doesn’t matter what you say,” he told us. “Just be there.” That really stuck with me.
This week I wrote an article for The Alternative Press about a new center opening in Westfield for children grieving the loss of a parent or sibling and their caregivers. Read it here. They’re looking for volunteers. Not necessarily professionals—just “loving listeners.” In other words, adults who are willing to listen and comfort without trying to “fix” the problem.
The first training session will take place at the end of March. What a wonderful opportunity! What a great skill! Learning to face our own discomfort and help those who are grieving—especially children—may be one of the most important things we can do. If you know or someone you know is interested in becoming a facilitator, you can contact the center at volunteer@imaginenj.org.
If your family or a family you know is grieving (and close enough to drive to Westfield), contact info@imaginenj.org to find out how you can benefit.
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